What’s Your Relationship Mindset?

In the realm of interpersonal dynamics, the “Know Your Relationship Mindset” paradigm serves as a fundamental framework for understanding and categorizing various attitudes that shape our interactions with others. This paradigm classifies individuals into four primary relationship mindsets: “I’m OK, You’re OK,” “I’m OK, You’re Not OK,” “I’m Not OK, You’re OK,” and “I’m Not OK, You’re Not OK.” Each mindset reflects a unique set of beliefs and attitudes that influence our communication, behavior, and the quality of our relationships.

This exploration delves into the intricacies of these four relationship mindsets, shedding light on their implications for personal growth, communication effectiveness, and the dynamics of collaboration. By understanding the underlying principles and behavioral tendencies associated with each mindset, we can gain valuable insights into how they shape our interactions and contribute to the overall health of our relationships. Whether aiming to nurture positive connections, resolve conflicts, or embark on a journey of self-improvement, developing an awareness of our predominant relationship mindset can empower us to cultivate more meaningful and harmonious connections with the individuals who play a role in our lives.

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How To Play

  • Step 1: View Your Selected Cards
    The 15 cards you chose in the first quarter are displayed on the screen.
    Step 2: Refine Your Selection
    Click on the 5 values that you feel are most essential out of your 15 selected cards.
    You must reduce your selection to exactly 5 cards to proceed.
  • Step 3: Reselect (Optional)
    You can change your selection at any time by unclick and clicking on different cards before proceeding.
  • Step 4: Proceed to the Next Stage
    Once you have selected 5 cards, click the “Next” button to continue to the next quarter.

How To Play

  • Step 1: View the Card
    All 40 cards are displayed on the screen, each with a title and description.
  • Step 2: Make Your Selection
    Click on the cards that represent values important to you.
    You need to select exactly 15 cards to continue.
  • Step 3: Reselect (Optional)
    You can change your selection at any time by unclick and clicking on different cards before proceeding.
  • Step 4: Proceed to the Next Stage
    Once you have selected 15 cards, click the “Next” button to proceed to the next quarter.